Anuradha SaxenaOne hour ago
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- Create a list of habits and see which habits need to be improved
- The atmosphere and festival of happiness can also be spoiled by harsh and vulgar words. In such a situation, consider the words before saying anything.
People keep a nine-day fast in Navratri to have faith and please Goddess Rani. It is believed that the fasts observed during these nine days are for the purity of our soul. Fasting purifies the body, mind and soul. Along with fasting for nine days, make some changes inside yourself to purify thinking and keep your mind calm. This is very important to make yourself better and to strengthen relationships. Our image depends on what we say, how we behave. When the image deteriorates, the relationship with the people `around ‘begins to deteriorate. Mental stress increases. But to improve them, it is important to know about them first. And how to improve, conscious can help you with this.
There is a verse in Sanskrit-
‘Krodhadbhavati sammoh: sammohatsmritibhibrama:.
This means that human memory gets confused by anger. Due to memory-illusion, the human intellect is destroyed and when the intellect is destroyed, the man himself destroys himself. When a man is in anger, he also behaves badly with those around him. This can spoil the relationship. In such a situation, whenever you get angry, take a deep breath. Instead of expressing anger, take a walk in the open air and sit alone for some time in a quiet place.
Control the language
Language is associated with our mind, behavior and anger. As we think, keep things in mind and live in anger all the time, then these feelings come out of our mouth in the form of abusive language. This tarnishes our image, but at the same time it causes tension in the relationship. The atmosphere and festival of happiness can also be spoiled by harsh and vulgar words. In such a situation, consider the words before saying anything.
Stay out of the fight
By arguing, matters do not resolve, but they complicate further. If you want to stay away from quarrels, stay away from arguments. Instead of arguing whether it is your fault or that of someone else, try to finish the matter by apologizing. Do not be disturbed for a long time due to any mistake or debate in the family. This not only worsens mutual relations, but also affects other members of the household and also maintains tension and negativity in the family.
Change in habits
If it seems that you have some bad things like stubbornness, negligence or avoiding work etc., then try to remove them. Many times these habits affect the relationship as well as our life. The better habits you adopt, the more you will be able to spend your life happily. Create a list of habits and see which habits need to be improved.
If you are better and more successful than anyone, be proud of it, not pride. Pride or arrogance arises from our mind, our thinking. They do away with relationships and that is why they are harmful for themselves. To make a distance from it, first stop comparing yourself to others. Ego comes inside any human being only when he considers himself superior to others. Don’t think that you know everything, but think that you need to learn more.
Don’t keep things in mind
Some people keep many things in mind. If there is any trouble then we do not tell anyone. Knee to mind affects the mind and stress increases. In this case, try to make your point known. People who put their point in clear words, their mind is really clear. If someone does not like the talk or behavior, then let them know about it sweetly instead of speaking back. They will feel bad about you for some time, but it will also lighten your mind.